When I worked in TV, I don't remember ever being asked, "Is your husband also a producer." But I am continually getting asked if my husband is also in ministry. Or, I should say, people often start off that question and then let it trail off, as if part-way through they realize it's a silly, sexist question. I'm happy to sit in the uncomfortable silence as we both confront our pre-conceived notions.
I talk more about how we can and should address our unconscious biases around gender and church leadership, in my latest post for Jory Micah's blog.